||[Nov. 2nd, 2005|01:50 pm]
thin white dutchess
|||||Thin Lizzy - Jailbreak||]|
why does something always seem to happen to ruin a good mood?
ok well miguel has new pictures and i looked at them ... and that would be enough right there.
of course, something even worse happened right before that ---
oh .. god ...
ok so kat is mad at me because *people* have been telling her stuff about me and attributing things to me that I am *not* saying. well. and it's all very vague. you can't very well deny saying something when you don't even know what you are being accused of saying. you cannot argue when someone says you are two-faced when you don't know what it is they think you have done to them. and why do people always feel the need to exaggerate everything? of course, everyone at work talks to, and about, everyone else. if you say to someone that so-and-so said this-and-that, eventually it will get back to so and so that you were TALKING SHIT about them behind their back. when perhaps you were not talking shit at all, and that person is just exaggerating what they heard, or attaching their own opinion, or assuming they know something more than they really know. and then ofcourse so-and-so is hurt and believes that person, and does not even stop to think about how some of the people they work with actually act on a day-to-day basis, and how they commonly say things that are not quite true ... and all of a sudden so-and-so is mad at one of their friends and the friend has no idea what the HELL is going on and is completely clueless about all these people talking about them behind their back!
why do people even have to talk about each other behind their backs? mm ... but we all do it. it's just that you have to try and take everything you hear and figure out which of it is actually true ... and sometimes when people hear something hurtful they do not stop to think about this. and they do not think about who this is attributed to and whether that person really has those kinds of feelings for them.
just ... fucking bullshit.